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1 - Overview of Myotherapy & Female Sexual
Function
It is cited in texts and literature that an
appalling number of women are unable to achieve
orgasm. This number is typified as lying in
the region of 30-40%. Many brush this away as
not being important,.. a bit like someone who has
food thinks food is not too important,.. go without
it for a while and see how you feel about it then!
Common physical reasons for reduced sensitivity
There are a multitude of physical reasons that
this occurs. Most common in my clinical
observations is malplacement of the pelvic organs
triggering a
cascade which results in the clitoris not being
allowed to project beyond its protective sheath
effectively. Remote visceral causes are often
linked to the placement of the liver and sigmoid
colon, both of which eventually can prevent clitoral
descent.
Other factors that often accompany reduced
sensitivity and sexual orgasm typically centre
around child birth, both natural and caesarean.
Injury can also be a significant factor with the
injurious incident often well documented but the
treatment of that damage far less that satisfactory.
2 - Exposing the Myth - Some women just can't
A far too often cited myth is that it is normal
for some women to simply be unable to achieve
orgasm. This is utter fabricated hooey!
Failing to account for abnormal anatomical or
developmental problems, there is NO reason that a
woman can not achieve orgasm.
3 - A few caveats before we get too carried away
here
We do need to also mention the very real
seduction elements, the foreplay etc that gets a
woman's mind into the game, so to speak. A
very interesting fact is that physiologically, a
woman may achieve physical arousal far more quickly
than a male. As this is far less 'obvious'
than in a male though, many times this physical
response goes un-noticed (why Viagra does not work
for women).
From here on, we will assume that the woman we
are talking about is developmentally normal, in a
fulfilling relationship and has a sufficiently
skilled lover.
4 -
Mechanisms of anorgasmia
I will stick to the common term, "anorgasmia"
despite the fact that it is much more correctly
called, "dysorgasmia". Dys meaning incorrect.
Anorgasmia (lack of the ability to orgasm) is
most commonly treated through external visceral
manipulation of the pelvic organs. The reason
this is so powerful is two fold.
One - the sheath that protects the
ultra-sensitive clitoris is purpose built and very
effective. If the clitoris is unable to
project beyond the protective sheath, there is
simply no way that full sensation will happen.
Everything will be muted! This is often the
case where a woman can, but it takes a lot of
pressure or effort.
Two - discomfort and pain. If the vagina is
being subjected to malpositioning, from whatever
source, direct or indirect, discomfort and pain may
result during any form or sexual arousal, much less
activity! This is far more common that
generally thought of. If the uterus is not in
its correct position, the cervix can not be either.
This literally means one wall of the vagina is going
to be in a state of distension. One 'bump'
into this section and you have just found the "off
switch". Naturally, physical stress on the
vaginal wall can effect significantly lubrication
too.
Read more about
visceral manipulation
5 -
How Visceral Manipulation can help
Note: Please use the above link to understand a
bit about visceral manipulation before getting too
deep into this section.
Using long lever techniques, pelvic organs
relative position and placement can be helped into a
state of far greater ease. Most commonly
worked upon structures are the ligaments that
position the uterus, uterine tubes, bladder and
other structures of the pelvis. Often a far
remote trigger can be in play and correction of that
trigger is a significant part of correcting orgasmic
dysfunction.
Naturally, such misalignments can also
drastically effect fertility and thankfully,
these same factors in most cases respond well to
visceral manipulation. It is interesting that
in many cases I have observed these two factors,
infertility and anorgasmia, found concurrently.
A number of structures directly and indirectly
effect a ligament that suspends the clitoris and
permits clitoral descent during natural arousal.
These are often tied directly into the function of
the muscular structures of the lower abdomen and
peritoneum. Dysfunction in these regions is
more typically addressed using a combination of
short and long lever techniques.
6 - How is this done in practice?
The first thing to state categorically is that NO
internal work is ever done in Ashmore Health Centre.
Not only is it illegal, it is un-necessary.
Clients are typically fully clothed and when hands
are positioned, clients are often invited to check
what is happening directly as well as having the
goals of each movement described in as much detail
as they desire.
Most of the time, you will feel a very specific
set of pressures applied to different structures
through the abdomen and be asked to move in a very
specific way to facilitate the actual release.
Most women are VERY surprised at how little the
techniques even seem to intrude upon their modesty,
even if they've had this style of work in the past.
We are not working on the mechanisms of arousal, we
are working on the structures that are preventing
correct response to that arousal. Like all of
Visceral Manipulation, techniques are done sparingly
and relatively quickly with quite long interim
periods, typically two or more weeks between visits.
Sometimes a woman will be asked to come in at
roughly the same time of her cycle to address a
particular problem. This is more the exception
than the normal though.
7 -
Practitioner's note
In many ways, I find that working with a woman so
that she and her partner can both enjoy a full and
rewarding sex life one of the more satisfying
aspects of practice. There is something
special about seeing a couple becoming more of a
couple because they are able to share more fully
together. I have received flowers from both
sides of a couple in a few cases and that always
brings a smile to the face!
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